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-josh b, sent via email
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jamie broke up with me. i've been everywhere for advice. people know me. they know i'm a nice guy. so they help out. here's some of the things i've been told. thanks everyone... "Jesus Christ. You deserve better than that, she says all those things, yet she is getting back with her ex? Well, good luck to him I'd say, get the hell out of there, and just think you're lucky to have seen this side of her now rather than later. Believe me I know how much it hurts to have someone you trust more than anything completely change into someone you don't know at all." -jackd, via the ataris message boards--- "I hope she didn't break up with you over the phone or even worse e-mail...that's lame. But shit, I agree with the drinking part, but blasting the ataris?!? Wtf for? You wanna feel worse??? Put on some shit that'll make you happy or something. Pop in the Vandals. Her e-mail sounds like a load of shit. Girl's will do that thinking they're letting a guy down easy. Breakups blow, but they get easier. Just tell yourself she's only a girl, your young, and there will always be others. Nobody ever stays with their girlfriends in HS, and even college to a good extent, their whole life so just look at it that this was inevitable." -post54, via the ataris message boards--- "don't drink. drinking isn't going to change anything. i know this might sound like a crock of shit but i know exactly how you feel. i've had the exact same thing happen to recently. i cried for days and refused to believe it was over, but i have some of the best friends ever who helped me overcome my sadness and helped me to accept it was over. however just recently he told me he wants to get back together and you have no idea how happy it made me. the next night when i rang him to tell him i wanted to try again, one of the girls who i considered a friend answered his phone and told me he was too busy to talk to me. so when i spoke to him next and asked him about it, he told me he was over me. how someone can change their feelings in a period of 24 hours is still beyond me. i admit it made me upset again and it still hurts to know that both my ex and my so called friend both hate me now and want nothing to do with me. Lucky for me there is one guy who i can hang around with who brings out the old me, the girl that existed before all the broken hearts and tears. I will promise you that it will hurt for the first few days, but arrange to do something with your friends who you know can make you smile and laugh because it's what you need. don't try and drink away your sorrows, it wont make you any happier and it wont bring her back. by the sounds of it you are a really sweet guy and deserves someone who will always be with you and never look back on the past, someone who only looks forward to their future with you. i know it sounds pathetic when i say 'things will look up' but trust me... they will. sorry its so long. i don't give good advice but i tried my best. best wishes and a hug steph.e xxx" -new*school*hero, via the ataris message boards--- "*cough* Trick. *cough* She loves you so much that she has to break up with you in an email, how fucked up is that shit. Instead of playing whack a mole, you should play smack a ho. I don't even see why you would want someone like that back even if you had the chance." -it never snows in florida (jon), via the ataris message boards --- "Dude you can't listen to her, she's a girl. trust me, get over your sorrows by getting with buds, get completely wasted and hook up with someone new. It's been done for fucking centuries, and it works like nothing else" -post54, via the ataris message boards --- "that is really bad...the only thing you can do is wait. but just keep talking to her.. I don't have any other advice than that...just keep in contact if you want you two to be together.." -stardumb, via the ataris message boards --- "Oh yeah, and don't do anything this person just said. "Keep talking to her..."? Why, so you can always be have her in your head and think of how she dumped you? Come back and try and be friends eventually, like a couple of months, but no less really. Just give yourself a LOT of time and space for a while. Hang with friends, meet new chicks...you'll be fine." -post54, via the ataris message boards --- "sweetie, as much as it hurts, you are going to have to eventually get over her. she'll just end up hurting you again--and believe me, that's NOT what you need. my boyfriend of a year broke up with me a couple months ago, and it still hurts like hell...so i know what you're going through. don't listen to anyone who tells you to hook up with lots of girls, you'll only regret it later--trust me. remember that there is someone out there for you (i know, it's hard to think about that when you still love someone)...someone who won't hurt you. aright? if you need to talk email me anytime: mixpixchik36@aol.com. i'll be happy to talk to you more. k? *hugs* try to be strong, k? for yourself... rachel" -seeing*stars, via the ataris message boards --- "well... what you're going through isn't good... she seems a bit of a bitch... playing with your emotions. Just wanted to say that I really liked your website, oh and also it irritated the hell out of me the way she kept saying 'baby' in the email, kind of patronizing if you aren't still together." -cherry, via the ataris message boards --- "it was the mix tape man... shoulda used my suggestions" -atticus, via the ataris message boards --- "I agree with JackD. I myself have been in that position as well, unfortunately. Simply put: YOU'RE HER BITCH. You shouldn't have to be the one left with all the pain, it's not right. And it's total bullshit that she dumped you so she could be with her ex. The fuck is up with that?" -new found stupidity, via the ataris message boards --- "I'm really sorry about your girl. My ex broke up with me because she thought I should "spend more time with my band". Two days later she was dating some asshole that went to our school. I'm glad that she did now. If she hadn't have broken up with me I wouldn't be as close to the girl I'm sort of with now. I don't know how you feel about god (seeing as how a lot of people on the board don't believe in him), but I believe that he makes everything happen for a reason. Hang in there." -richard, sent via email --- "This is so sad.... I feel for you, dude... I've been through this myself, and had to stand by my friends while they went through it... I think you should go to a nice rave or something, get totally fucked, and find some nice chick to make you feel better... Forget about jamie. she can't love you as much as she says she does if she keeps stringing you along like this.... Sigh...." -emmers3628, via instant message |
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